We’re all pretty scared and we’re all entitled to feel so, and sharing these sentiments will remind us we’re in this together as we move forward. Text your friends about how much this sucks and post pictures from earlier in the year with sappy captions about senior recitals and championship games. This is all true, but not what I need to hear right now and not what I want to pass on to you. They’ll say that the world is ours if we’re brave enough to chase after it, and that dreams come true if we work hard.
There’s a moment in every graduation speech where the speaker reminds everyone to unify in maintaining their lofty ideals and to always treat people with kindness. I know I’m not alone in feeling rattled by senior year ending this way and the general anxiety of such tumultuous times. This is an unsettling time for all of us, and feeling ashamed of our emotions just because others may have it worse is unhealthy and unproductive. These are not givens and I remain very grateful.Īfter I cried and ate a lot of Oreos (Double Stuf, because I haven’t become completely unhinged), I realized that it’s okay to feel upset about all of these changes even though I still have a lot to be grateful for. I felt that I had no right to be so unsettled, especially because I still had somewhere to live and comforts still available to me. I was ashamed that I felt upset even though myself and my loved ones were still healthy and because I know precautionary measures are crucial. In the two days after Montclair State’s decision to extend spring break and make classes online for the rest of the semester, I had to resign from two jobs and get ready to move my belongings out of my residence hall and home two months earlier than expected. Did I have my last ever class without realizing it? Will I have a graduation ceremony? How many people have I seen for the last time? Just bins of belongings and a sudden push into completely uncharted waters.īeing a college senior right now is wild. We had virtual goodbyes and no transition into the real world like we had planned. We are uncertain graduates in an uncertain time, looking for answers when there might not be any. We were sent away from campus, our friends and the lives we had created for ourselves as the world we had just begun bracing ourselves for becomes even scarier. Two months early, you have to suddenly move home and say goodbye to everyone AND college in general? 21-year-old me would have been in a glass case of SHAMBLES. Imagine being a senior in college right now and having the entire period between spring break and graduation cancelled. After thousands of dollars and years of late nights and poor dietary choices, our time at Montclair State University has come abruptly and unsettlingly to a close. This is, of course, not how any of us imagined our college experiences to end. It’s unfortunate that this year’s ceremony is being conducted over Skype, and even more tragic that you all have an up-close and pixelated view of my double chins. It is such an honor to deliver this year’s commencement address.
This is a strictly satirical opinion piece. Disclaimer: No official decisions have been made to change Montclair State University’s commencement and or convocation ceremonies scheduled for May 2020.
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